It was never a hard decision. A destination wedding. We talked about a destination wedding long before we were even engaged.  We just loved the idea of getting so many people we love in one place away from home where we knew they would have an amazing time—with us. Some say destination weddings are selfish. Most love the idea of you getting their butts up and out of their state for no better reason than to celebrate love. 99% of the time your guests want to be there. That’s why they go.